Saturday, 25 August 2012

What is stronger WILL.. DESTINY...LUCK ?

There is nothing as 'LUCK' .We term some pleasant surprises as Luck.But its only a fruit of our 'KARMA '. One's Karma defines his destiny.If one can change his 'Karma 'he is able to change his destiny.The three types of Karma - Sathwik , Rajas , n Tamas .By birth itself one's Karma is determined.We understand it as our natural instinct .Accordingly we are choosing our ways.YES BOTH ARE THE COMBINATION OF EACH OTHER SOMETIMES OUR KARMA PLAYS ALL THE ROLE AND SOMETIMES WHEN THINGS HAPPEN UNEXPECTEDLY THEN WE SAY THAT WAS DUE TO OUR DESTINY...You can change and write your own destiny through karma....Karma plays dominating role in our life. Fate is the events that will happen to a person that cannot be changed.
and luck will be on our side if we work towards our aim honestly and bring us success....i would not say that they dont play avital role. luck and destiny play an important role in life. they even decide many, but you must keep trying for all the thing....Destiny is what we belive we can achieve and luck is when we achieve more than what we are destined for. If we believe in them we will follow our destiny :) 

Wednesday, 22 August 2012

Why women are not safe at any corner ?


Women who have been recognized as the most beautiful creation of the God in this world are living in a threat in today’s world.
We have examples of great women in this world from many decades setting example for the coming generationand fighting, sacrificing their lives for noble causes. We have lot of names in our world history where women broke all the barriers and engraved their names in the history of world like few of them listed here – Queen of Jhansi Rani Laxmi Bai, Sarojni Naidu, Fatima a D/O Muhammad, Queen Elizabeth who was known for her beauty, intelligence and boldness, late Mrs Benazir Bhutto, Late Mrs, Indira Gandhi ,former PM of India, who changed the face of an under developed country into a developing and booming country with all her efforts etc. Women be its at home, family, society, always have been a great boon to the society, country and the world as a whole for simple and great reasons as well. . She being responsible for many good and beautiful things on this earth and cause of supporting thehuman race on this earth is a gift of God to us. But a big question mark lies here as to “why women are not safe at any corner?”. In our history and also in the past, we have various examples about torture on women for several causes ; some time in the name of religionself respect for sake of beliefs, dowry and also for the cause of rich wells, rules and man -made boundaries. But she has always been somewhere or the other treated just like a commodity or a material and most of the time either public or private property.
It is really unfortunate that metropolitan cities like Delhi which has got so many plus points in the shape of latest technology always tops in the list of women rapes, molestation and wife bashing. Not only this, education is such a strong hold in these metropolitan cities of the country , then why on earth people behave in such a barbaric manner ? In fact in such of the places where women are not safe, the people who buy every thing with the help of money treat woman at par with the sex object.
Their destiny is not decided by God but by their male family members. Sometime with or without the consent of their mothers who brought them into this world.
But there are some of the concerns of our society which can be eradicated, removed and abolished with proper growth of literacy in the particular State or villages, awareness in the society and many more measures. My concern is now on a new criminal illegal growth spreading with a spurt in our society that is sexual harassment of a woman.
In today’s world as our day to day life we come across a lot of news and information in newspapers and through media etc., that women are living with a threat of being sexually harassed or in other words forcefully asked to fulfill the several desires of man without her consent and not only adults, but nowadays teenagers like school and college going girls are facing same threat in their everyday life. This is a practice growing in our society in not only villages and small towns due to illiteracy and ignorance but also seen in most of the number of casesincreasing in our Metropolitan cities.
I want to throw light on the condition of today’s women and the difficulty they are facing in society in India or in any other part of the world and my effort is not to disrespect any country but to bring reality in terms of individual and showing concern about the matter. This is just a salute to all the women of the world who have made our lives beautiful for the role played by them in their own fine manner.

Wednesday, 8 August 2012

wah!


Wo jo Rehta tha is dil mein kabi "apnon"ki tarah,
Aisa bhola k milta hy ab "sapnon"ki tarah,
Pal pal karta tha jo sath"nibhane"ki batain,
Chorr gaya hm ko purani "rasmon"ki tarah,
Ruswa huay "zamany"mein to ye jana,
Tere waady b thy jhooty teri "qasmon"ki tara.

Tuesday, 7 August 2012

It’s impossible to find someone who won’t hurt you, so go for the person worth the pain.
relationships-of all kinds-are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.
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